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Sunday, January 29, 2012

How to love ?

Accidentally saw this article that give me some thought....
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怎么去爱一个男人、请仔细看下去! ♡

年轻时,我们不懂爱。我们以为不许他抽烟,是为了不让他得肺癌;不许他喝酒,是为了保护他的肝;不许他看通宵,不许他上网,是为了保证他的睡眠;不许他和朋友打牌、上馆子,是为了不让他荒废事业,一事无成-
爱他,我们就要给他一定的空间。我们不能因为爱,就剥夺了他的爱好和自由。男人抽烟喝酒,就像女人逛街穿衣一样,那是一种由衷的快乐。没有了它,男 人就少 了太多的快乐。所以,如果不是嗜烟酗酒,如果不至于影响健康,那么,抽烟的时候帮他点火,喝酒的时候陪他来两杯吧!也许你会发现,他的快乐其实 就是你的快 乐-
男人喜欢什么,陪他就好了,窝在他的怀里,看他笑,看他狂,看他丧气,你只要陪着他就好,不要抱怨,也许当时他把你忘了,以至于你睡着了,他都不知道, 但 是,当他忙完时,他一定会温柔地抱起你。男人爱上网,你就让他上吧,有些时候,男人可以在网中找到成就感,找到英雄感,人总要有点精神寄托的。男人 当然更 是少不了朋友的,只要他不是夜夜笙萧,偶尔和朋友聚聚,你该为他高兴。一个有朋友的人,他才不会孤独,不会偏执。不要嫉妒他的朋友,不要说你没有他的朋 友 重要,一个人的一生中,除了爱情,亲情,他还需要友情的-
拥有时,我们不懂爱,易把亲近当疏远 。 我们会发现,我们爱的那个男人对谁都好。他在车上可以和陌生人亲切的交谈;他看见有老人会热心地让座;他在路上跟每一个熟悉的人打招呼;在外面他似 乎事事 周全,可是,唯有对我们,他是那样的容易忽略。他会忘了你的生日,他会忘了陪你逛街,甚至放假后,他倒头就睡,他竟然都不陪你说话。你很疑惑,为什么, 为 什么这个男人他对谁都好,唯独对我毫不重视?他陪朋友可以聊到深夜,为什么面对我竟无话可说,为什么让他陪我看电视,他就说累了要睡觉?亲爱的,千万不 要 这样想,他对谁都好,对谁都周全,那是因为他和他们有距离。男人是很虚荣的,他要面子,他也要应酬。而你,你是他的爱人,在他眼里,你就是自己人,他无 须 在你面前活得那样累。所以,你要明白一点,男人对你忽略,其实,正是把你当作自己一样的看待。所以,不要抱怨他忽略你,记住,只要他能在和别人亲切交谈 的 时候紧握着你的手,在晚上睡觉的时候紧抱着你的身躯,那么,你就无须自己折磨自己。你要相信,他爱你就像爱自己-
拥有时,我们不懂爱,易把 任性当撒娇。爱一个人就有权利霸道地说:“不要穿那件衣服,难看死了。穿这件,这是我新给你买的。”张晓风在《一个女人的 爱情观》里如是说。其实,很多女 人在她们的男人面前都是这样霸道任性的。我们以为爱他,就有权利要他这样,不要他那样。我们以为爱他,就可以翻看他的 口袋,看他的聊天记录,检查他的邮 箱。我们以为爱他,当然就可以在他面前毫无隐瞒的发泄我们的情绪-
我们可以霸道,可以任性,只要我们的霸道能让他体会到我们的依赖,只要我们的任性能够让他开心,那么所有的情绪都是可爱的撒娇:在寂静的夜里,你蹭 在他的 怀里,不肯去睡是撒娇;走累的时候,你说走不动了要他背你,是撒娇;在他生气的时候,你摇摇他的胳膊,亲亲他的脸蛋是撒娇。总之,撒娇是爱情的调味品, 是 亲昵爱恋的自然流露,撒娇绝不是吵架的导火线。当我们的撒娇变成了一种执拗,当我们的任性变得不讲道理,当我们的爱恋变成了不信任。亲爱的,爱情将和我 们 渐行渐远-
拥有时,我们不懂爱,易把怀疑当调侃-
我们爱他,真的,这种爱甚至可以深入骨髓。我们以为世界上只有这个男人最好,我们以为我们爱的男人,别的女人也一定喜欢。于是,我们把他含在口里怕化了,捧在手里怕碎了。我们不知道该怎样珍惜才好,我们变得患得患失,神经紧张-
因为爱他,所以,我们害怕失去。我们惟恐一不小心,他就被哪个女人给拐跑了。于是,我们开始失去自我,我们开始敏感多疑-
爱他,我们就要相信他。只有你相信他,你才能更加幸福。因为你感觉到了幸福,你才会更爱他,而他也将更加爱你。而怀疑一旦植入你的心中,你的爱便在 一点点 消失。因为,你总把他往坏里想,自然,心理暗示着自己一天天远离他。你在痛苦中煎熬,你伤害着自己,也伤害着爱人。爱不是占有,爱是宽容 宽厚 是通达 是理解-

Friday, January 27, 2012

support

support,
y let me hear it??
izit bcz god feel that this muz let me noe den create a chance to let me noe?
bcz of the person dey support,
but wat he do shit,
nex year dun ask me help,
nt feel happy after help,
i rather dun1 help u,
i wil feel better,
at least nobody uphappy,
juz wanna tel u,
hw u treat my "dem"
i will double treat bac on u...
hw u count lik this,i wil double count bac,
i dun care ur consequence,
bcz u nvr think of their side too,
its totally nt fair,
dey nt deserve that, dey deserve more than that (a lot!),
gettin upset when writting this,
my dear guest pls dun ask me wat is this abt,
juz wanna express without save as draft, lolz


im not taking package,
all unhappy thing dunid to cum together,
1 is enuf!!
it's a accident,
nobody want this incident happen,
i noe u angry but i cant do anything,
make me more pek cek & moody!
stop here, bye

Thursday, January 26, 2012

seriously

i juz dun like smoke! i dun like ppl smoke in front of me,
it wil drive me crazy, i dun like that gang!!!!
i dun like that life,
i dun1 it slowly bcum a part of my life!
i like the life n klang n i slowly improve it like now, nt tht sht.

Sunday, January 22, 2012

21st birthday

Gonna share something that happen once in my life, my 21st bday...
I'm juz having a very simple birthday, no celebration no party... 13th nite, he came to Klang n v go for a muvi den supper... I was busying reply msg when muvi...XD
14th...
I passed it with shopping at sunway pyramid, bought some new year clothes n shoe with him...
Althou something unhappy happened b4 v reach sp, but at least v end it with lots of stuff n better mood...
After tht went to cafe... Havin supper, It's already 11pm, eat cheese cake thr, so delicious~ den play cho dai dee... I lose from start to end, (last round I won) :) haven great time thr...
15th, spend whole dat with him again... Act I spend 48 hr wif him except when bath n sleep..
Den Yc with ssg, oh I get present, n 2small cake, tq:)
I love spend time wif dem...;)

Here is some photo tht help me to talk tq dem

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

2012

Hi I'm here again,
Ntg much to share,
Life stil remain d same, work n work n enjoy holiday,
But I'm glad tht last month hv quite a lot of holidays, that makes my working life better...a bit...
Working ar, time pass so fast, feel lik nt enuf time to complete my assg, but it just fine, except the stupid PATI thing, yuck! I hate doin passport n permit thing! Blueh :(
Oh ya, abt my xmas 11, I gt a bit regret, I shud go icity on tht day, mayb more activities? But b4 tht havin dinner at 88 steamboat with part of ssg,
Wat impress me the most is d green tea ice cream, owh~ sedap!! Btw d food nt tht bad...
Den went to morib, d look was improve, n I take a video of... Uhm I Duno wat tht thing call...but I just upload it when usin pc, kinda wu Liao de video ~

For new year, went to genting wif him n some of his frenz,
Wat most za dao is~ v just see d mist, can't see d firework! Lolz=.=
btw, d weather is so cold thr, kinda lik it, but cold x100000 tht I cannot tahan, n I din bring sweater n i summore wear short skirt, stay cool B-)
After c d mist, n hear ppl shout for Ntg, we went to casino,
Thts my 1st time~
but d guard didnt check my ic,
Shud I happy? Hahaha T_T
Lepak at casino, I din gamble since Im so kia su, but I nervous for dem...
Guess wat time I reach sbn?
630 am... Hahaha... Cool~
I fall asleep in car, sleep quite well but pity to mr leong, he stuck in jam summore close his eye for few second while drivin, dangerous leh... Pls dun do tht again...
D nex day sleep until almost 4pm, wow, long time no such life ady, appreciate it~

Holiday ended...:(
Waitin new year.... Hohoho, I start workin on 5th of cny...
Sad, gonna make it longer, bye bye

Red Lollipop